- Posted by: Elama Gantius
- Category: Organization & Planning
In our culture, there happens to be a myth about sex on first night of wedding that every bride and groom use to have the most unbelievable sex of their lives. It’s a silly idea as it may not be the case for many of us, but there are things you and your partner can do to make the moment memorable. Here are the tips for the first wedding night.
Take it easy.
Savour this moment. You are very likely a little tired to have the most amazing sex of your life, but you will just appreciate being together. Your wedding night happens to be likely to be amongst your most intimate and romantic sexual experiences.
Lower your expectations.
Between the pressure, the booze, and sheer exhaustion, this won’t be a recipe for the best sex you’ve ever had, and that’s okay. Try to enjoy what happens.
Talk to each other
Before you begin, getting ready for wedding night is important. Spend some time relaxing by talking about the wedding and your love for each other. Let things get romantic and cheesy or, if it turns you on, get a little messy. The sex that follows will be intimate and surprising.
Change your idea of the “wedding night”.
If you’re too tired for foreplay, then the sex itself won’t be that great. Wouldn’t it be well waiting until morning? You will endure in bed with the enthusiasm and adrenaline on the day before of your wedding night, but you will be more refreshed and ready to go.
Flirt during the wedding.
It can be easy to spend your entire wedding greeting guests, cutting the cake, and taking care of a thousand other details, but remember why you’re there in the first place. Don’t forget to stop, look into each other’s eyes, share a few extra kisses, and flirt with each other.
Do not have sex for a couple of weeks before the wedding.
Many couples try this to make their wedding night sex fresh and new again. Others go even further by giving up sex months before the wedding so they can be like virgins on their wedding night.
Try something new.
Maybe there was something you wanted to try? Your wedding night might be a fun night to research and be a little more exciting. It is the beginning of a new chapter in your life, so why shouldn’t it be the beginning of a new chapter in your sex life as well?
Wear something special.
Wedding night lingerie might really assist set the mood. Choose something a little different from what you normally wear to excite your partner. Make sure you trust him, as a confident lover is always a better lover.